It’s time

It’s time to do up your trees, time to enjoy festivities. It’s time to bring down all your woollies, time to indulge in chocolates and crispies. It’s time to relive the entire year, it’s time to embrace the new year without fear. It’s now time for a new member to join me, it is time to make a beautiful and happy family 🙂

As the year comes to an end, it brings back all the moments i have lived since the very first day of the year. How time flies, how relationships change, how one has to take each day as it comes, it is truly a miracle! All said and done, i can only feel grateful for having experienced some very new things in my life. Experiences that have not only changed me as a person but also changed my perception. In a few days, i am all set to be a mother to a beautiful little baby that all of us have been eagerly waiting for. What will 2017 hold for me? It will make me a little more selfless and a it is going to give me a lot of strength and courage to embrace my new role.

So, here’s wishing each one of you a blissful year end filled with love and joy! After all it is only the End to start a new beginning.

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“Let’s love each other, even when we are mad at each other”

A sweet thing my husband told me last night during our conversation. I was expressing my worst fears and worries now that we are going to enter parenthood. Anyway I am known to worry a little more than necessary but isn’t it always better to be open about it? So here we were discussing life post the baby and how things are going to change drastically. I was telling him his duties and he was reassuring me each time saying that we will be just fine. Amidst all this I even mentioned that in case we don’t meet half way, it is going to cause fights and frustrate us to no extent. It is but obvious that with a third little human in the picture, responsibilities are bound to increase and it is only better and wiser to share them equally. To this, he said that “let’s love each other, even when we are mad at each other”. This not only rhymed but it made complete sense.

Every time a couple fights, they lose complete sense of what they are saying or doing at the moment. This doesn’t always work in their favor as each person takes on the role of a demon. This is when the mind does the talking and not the heart. To think of it, wouldn’t it help to actually remind yourselves of the love you have for each other, rather ruin everything you have? As hard as it is and as easy as this sounds, it is a step that both must take to maintain the sanctity of the relationship.

In conclusion, fight but do it right so as to not affect or be affected by emotions too much. It does take a toll on your personality and kind of mars the whole idea of being together with someone. So, love is your only resort go for it!